BAD DAY AT WORK NOSY COWORKERS!!!!!!

Thanks Sue I really appreciate the advice and you are rigth. I am trying to figure out exactly how to deal with this . I judt can't believe how rude people can be. thanks again!!!

 

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Lori

Lori, I have to totaly agree with  Stacy!!! People get very jealous and I bet you will see more of that as you really start to lose the weight! Think about what you might want to say so you have it ready when people start! I know others have things to say but I was very strong willed and would put them in their place if they kept on talking s#%t!  The stronger I got the more I stood up for myself! You will learn as well hun, it takes time and when you start to feel better about this you will see the change in yourself....it is an AWESOME feeling  You will tell them to just shove it!!!   Be proud of your choice and all you have to say is you did this for the YOUR health and just smile at them. I also would listen to the horror stories and at one point I would say thanks for the info but I really do not want to hear the negative at this point, I did all my research and know what could happen but thanks anyways! Always remember to smile because you have ONE up on them now! You are taking control of your life now and making it a better LIFE for YOU! hehehe I would just smile knowing I had this control over my new life now..... I hope that helps hun and come back to vent anytime.....you will feel better about all of this soon!!!!

Thanks Debra I really am proud of my choice she just really caught me off guard . I feel awesome and I do not regret my decision I love every moment of this maybe one day I will show up to work ina bikini lol that should really get her talking. Thanks again for letting me vent and the great words of encouragment. Hugs Lori

I can't believe how rude some people can be.  I feel that if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it at all.  I would report it.  I know if I was in the same situation I would feel really embarrassed as well.  I wouldn't know how to deal with it either.  I'm sorry you had to go through this.

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Patty

Hi Patti  I agree people should keep thier fat mouths shut!!!!!! Thanks for the support . How's your foot? Hugs Lori

I hope to have it off on Tuesday.  Thanks for asking.

Hugs,

Patty

 

Your anger is justified! there's no doubt about that. I often wonder how I'll handle people asking why I was out of work. I still have some months ahead to decide what to do about it. But if I were in your shoes I would have been mortified and then LIVID! How dare she throw your business out there like that! (EEK...now i'm starting to talk like my sister) kick her in the shins and run!!!

Thank you so much for the support . Good luck when you go back to work I thought it would be a lot easier but unfortunatley I work with all women. and i guess the jeaoulusy monster does exist. Thanks again Hugs Lori 

THE HECK WITH ALL OF THEM THEY ARE JUST JEALOUSY. DON'T FEEL EMBARASSED, IF YOU ARE HAPPY WITH THE DECISION YOU MADE THEN BE PROUD. PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS GONNA HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY.  GOOD AND BAD.  ESPECIALLY THE ONE WHO AREN'T HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES.  THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO BREAK YOUR SPIRITS. THEY SEE YOUR LOSING WEIGHT AND YOUR HAPPY AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF . YOU KNOW HOW SOME WOMAN CAN BE.  KEEP YOUR HEAD UP LADY !! STRUT YOU STUFF!!! THAT WILL MAKE THEM EVEN MORE ENVIOUS ,MEANWHILE YOU FEELING GREAT! MISERY LOVES COMPANY CHERI

Thanks Cheri  The support here really means alot. Good luck to you on your upcoming surgery I.m saving you a seat.  Hugs Lori