I am soooo Bummed........

Dear, sweet Jane, oh where do I start?....I know just how you feel, about feeling so alone and depressed, but you ditched your abuser and things are going to work out for your good.  I am praying for you and sending you BIG HUGS!!!  If you do get postponed, don't fret...I got postponed twice for different reasons...it just allowed me more time to prepare, I know I had my heart set to get it done as soon as possible...but it worked out..Everything will work out for you...and it will truly be a new beginning for you in so many ways...Any time you want to talk or vent or what ever just message me..I will send you my phone # pm...Take care sweetie and keep your chin up!

just relax and take it one day at a time .... sit down and say to yourself how bad do i want this? when my surgeon told me he wouldnt do the surgery unless i quit smoking i gave away 5 cartons of cigarettes and said i dont smoke..... and thats only cause i wanted to be skinny more then i wanted to smoke... the thing that has helped me most on my journey is my little voice telling me i will smoke tomorrow  then when tomorrow came i said again ill smoke tomorrow..... i ended up quitting and then right after surgery i picked it back up again but was nicotine free like he asked .... i also dont believe you will get in trouble for wearing the patch that would give you a posiive nicotine reading... the main thing is what do you want more? do you want to smoke? or do you want to get healthier ..... ONLY YOU WILL KNOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!! best of luck to you in all your decisions and use this board to vent whenever you need we are all here for you !!!!! Stacy

"When you're down , and weery, you just call my name out loud .  When nothin' nothin' is going right "..... Jane, I am here for you.  YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON .  YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING GREAT FOR YOURSELF.    Carol

Thanks Carol!!!!!!!!!!   You are the best!!!  Thanks for everything..........thanks for listening to my crazyiness and trying to calm me down...ya know my nerves have really gotten to me!!!!!!!!! TYTYTYTYTY!!!!  Jane