It looks like Ben will be able to have his surgery after all...

Funny you should mention that he didn't realize he was getting "hit" on.   My wife is ALWAYS telling me that women are hitting on me, but I just don't see it (unless it's as blatant as tree climbing, dairy loving ladies LOL).  My birthday was a couple of months back and I got, not one, but TWO birthday cakes made for me by ladies that I work with.  OMG, it took a while for her to get over that!  Then there is the occasional "You'd better tell her to quit touching you, Why in the world does she have to hug you everytime she sees you?, Did you see the way she looked at you?!"  I just don't see it, maybe I've been married too long to realize what's going on. 

Hi Jason,

I might be that you've been 'married too long,' but I know that Ben was always the 'buddy,' 'friend,' etc... and rarely was 'hit' on as a big man. Don't get me wrong, while I know I'm prejudiced, I also think Ben is a good looking guy, no matter his weight. At any rate, I imagine that you are and Ben will be getting attention that you never got before and will have to learn the 'new signals.'

Enjoy your new found 'popularity.' I'll bet that Misty is like me and not at all threatened, but just loves to rib you about it now.

Yeah, you're right.  And, yeah, Misty knows I'm not going to stray, regardless of the "come on" that I recieve.  I can't afford another house!  LOL LOL LOL!!!