This is my rant so if you are easily offended do NOT read this
Ok before i start i want to say that what i'm about to say is not going to be nice or kind hearted.It is about how i feel and if any of you are easily offended i suggest you stop right here and now and not read any farther. If you chose to read on i do not want emails chewing my ass for what i have to say.
My Niece tryed committing suicide in May she oded on fentyl patches by taking a syringe and pulling out the liquid and then injecting it into her veins she also popped a bunch of oxycontin, She was found turning blue in her bedroom 911 was called she was life flighted to Columbia put on a vent, well she pulled through, seen a nut dr 1 day was released, Nothing was done. I though hotlined her because she has a baby he was 1 at that time. But i also ran my ass to Columbia to be with her so she wouldn't be alone when she finally woke up. She made all kinds of promises. None of them has she kept, She has oded 4 more times since then been taken to ER in Kirksville but each time just sent home after she was stabilized. Well Last night she did it again, She was laying in frontroom floor with her head in her sons lap who is now 2 my mother noticed her son slapping her in the face really hard and elizabeth wasnt responding to it so she went over to her and her finger nails were blue so mom moved dylan and elizabeths lips were blue also .So another 911 call they shipped her to Columbia she is on a vent. i talked to the Dr in Columbia last night her blood work showed fentynal,xanax,somas,and percocet.I am not and will not be going to Columbia this time ,This time the stupid ----- is on her own. My mom says thats a lie that they say they think its diabetics or sleep apnea.This woman is in total denial and completely brain dead herself. Well i am freaking pissed to the max. This woman lies her ass for that kid, Hell she gives her the freaking drugs. My mother has a prescription drug problem also. This woman never did a damn thing for us her own damn kids when we were growing up but she will lie her ass off to protect elizabeth. I called DSF, Hotline,And Juvenile office today and told them what is going on and that that place is not a fit nor safe place for dylan to be because both of them are pill addicts. and mom dosent know which end is up half the time, She gets her meds filled and within 3 days they are empty.Here comes the part thats probably gonn **** alot of you off but thats ok . I am to the point i just wish if she was gonna kill herself she would just do it and get it over with so i dont have to set here day in day out wondering when the call is gonna come saying she has finally killed herself.I am past the point of careing about elizabeth , My concern is about Dylan he has no voice in this. And I,ve tried getting him removed from the situation and nothing has been done, I asked DSF today what is it gonna take to get them off their asses and do something to protect him, I said is he gonna have to get ahold of some pill they have dropped because they are so messed up they dont realize they did,is he gonna have to get a fentyl patch and stick it in his mouth and die before they do something? I am so freaking pissed it ain't even funny. My mother was worthless when i was a child and the woman is still worthless today.Elizabeth has 2 other children that was taken away from her because of her her stupid ass drug and alcohol problem. And she still chooses to do drugs knowing she is going to end up loseing dylan. But i will not stand back and watch that baby live through the kind of life i lived through. With an alcoholic mother and a drug addict who cared more for her booze and drugs and running the street than she did for us. I dont care if he has to go into foster care ,In my book he would be way better off and a hell of alot safer..
Well Thats my rant I had noone to talk to about it and had to get it off my chest before i blew a gasket. I have my big girl panties on for any of you who want to rake my ass over the coals. but i still stand firm in what i said.
Love and Hugs Deb
My Niece tryed committing suicide in May she oded on fentyl patches by taking a syringe and pulling out the liquid and then injecting it into her veins she also popped a bunch of oxycontin, She was found turning blue in her bedroom 911 was called she was life flighted to Columbia put on a vent, well she pulled through, seen a nut dr 1 day was released, Nothing was done. I though hotlined her because she has a baby he was 1 at that time. But i also ran my ass to Columbia to be with her so she wouldn't be alone when she finally woke up. She made all kinds of promises. None of them has she kept, She has oded 4 more times since then been taken to ER in Kirksville but each time just sent home after she was stabilized. Well Last night she did it again, She was laying in frontroom floor with her head in her sons lap who is now 2 my mother noticed her son slapping her in the face really hard and elizabeth wasnt responding to it so she went over to her and her finger nails were blue so mom moved dylan and elizabeths lips were blue also .So another 911 call they shipped her to Columbia she is on a vent. i talked to the Dr in Columbia last night her blood work showed fentynal,xanax,somas,and percocet.I am not and will not be going to Columbia this time ,This time the stupid ----- is on her own. My mom says thats a lie that they say they think its diabetics or sleep apnea.This woman is in total denial and completely brain dead herself. Well i am freaking pissed to the max. This woman lies her ass for that kid, Hell she gives her the freaking drugs. My mother has a prescription drug problem also. This woman never did a damn thing for us her own damn kids when we were growing up but she will lie her ass off to protect elizabeth. I called DSF, Hotline,And Juvenile office today and told them what is going on and that that place is not a fit nor safe place for dylan to be because both of them are pill addicts. and mom dosent know which end is up half the time, She gets her meds filled and within 3 days they are empty.Here comes the part thats probably gonn **** alot of you off but thats ok . I am to the point i just wish if she was gonna kill herself she would just do it and get it over with so i dont have to set here day in day out wondering when the call is gonna come saying she has finally killed herself.I am past the point of careing about elizabeth , My concern is about Dylan he has no voice in this. And I,ve tried getting him removed from the situation and nothing has been done, I asked DSF today what is it gonna take to get them off their asses and do something to protect him, I said is he gonna have to get ahold of some pill they have dropped because they are so messed up they dont realize they did,is he gonna have to get a fentyl patch and stick it in his mouth and die before they do something? I am so freaking pissed it ain't even funny. My mother was worthless when i was a child and the woman is still worthless today.Elizabeth has 2 other children that was taken away from her because of her her stupid ass drug and alcohol problem. And she still chooses to do drugs knowing she is going to end up loseing dylan. But i will not stand back and watch that baby live through the kind of life i lived through. With an alcoholic mother and a drug addict who cared more for her booze and drugs and running the street than she did for us. I dont care if he has to go into foster care ,In my book he would be way better off and a hell of alot safer..
Well Thats my rant I had noone to talk to about it and had to get it off my chest before i blew a gasket. I have my big girl panties on for any of you who want to rake my ass over the coals. but i still stand firm in what i said.
Love and Hugs Deb
Wow, I want to tell you that I am so sorry for you and Dylan. I do feel sorry for Elizabeth that she is so depressed that she is trying so hard to kill herself. Why has she not received any mental health help? This doesnt make sense to me? I would take Dylan in a minute. This breaks my heart, I cant have anymore kids and want a little boy so bad. Why doesnt she just give him up? If she is going to do this to herself, FINE there is nothing we can do to change her mind... but for gods sake dont do this in front of the baby~~ There is alot of drug use in my family as well. My uncle killed himself about 20 years ago and it never is discussed and he is still missed like it happened 5 yrs ago. It was a big surprise. I am here for you if you need to talk. I understand things get bad and seem like you dont have anyone and that things are so bad and wont ever look up... but this is so unfair to that precious baby boy... I am here for you if you ever need to talk.
Love ya ~HUGZ ~ Lori
Love ya ~HUGZ ~ Lori
Thanks Lori
My brother killed himself in Jan o7 with an overdose of pills also and that almost killed me .It still tears my heart heart out. But with her i am just done if she wants to do it then noone can stop her but that baby does not have to go through it.Family services needs to step in and do something before he gets hurt or worse, i tried getting mom to let me bring him over her today but she knew what i was planning and she wouldnt have no part of it.
My brother killed himself in Jan o7 with an overdose of pills also and that almost killed me .It still tears my heart heart out. But with her i am just done if she wants to do it then noone can stop her but that baby does not have to go through it.Family services needs to step in and do something before he gets hurt or worse, i tried getting mom to let me bring him over her today but she knew what i was planning and she wouldnt have no part of it.
Deb....I agree with you!!!!...That baby don't need ot be in a stiuation like that.......I hate to see children in those situations...I will be praying for the lil guy....I pray he will have the chance to be put with someone who can care for him and love him the way he should be.....
Im sorry you have had to deal with this alone...I think you have done all you can do for her .....A person has to want to help themselves before you can help them.....My prayers are with you and your family...
Luv & Hugs...Tammy~ammy
Im sorry you have had to deal with this alone...I think you have done all you can do for her .....A person has to want to help themselves before you can help them.....My prayers are with you and your family...
Luv & Hugs...Tammy~ammy
Tammy~Ammy
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I have to go to bed soon, but I wanted to write you 1 more time tonight and tell you how sorry I am that you are going through this. This is a hard thing for everyone involved. It breaks my heart that the lil guy has to go through this and I pray he wont get hurt and he will be fine. I think he would be better off with someone that would love him and take good care of him. It breaks my heart when ppl who can have kids, dont cherish them like they should be~ they are blessings... I love my kids more then anything!! Do you know what your going to do now? what are you options? I mean, really what can you do if DFS wont do anything? Is there a dad or someone who would have some rights to the little one? I am going to go pray and please keep me posted... I havent been on here as much lately... between getting ready to go back to school this Spring , working on getting my protein in and exercising...But, if you need anything or want to talk please let me know and I will give you my email address and phone number... I know how it feels to have loved ones that are on there way to self destruction!! hope to hear from ya soon!! HUGZ ~*Lori
i dont know why anyone should rake you over the coals. it is this girl that needs to be raked over the coals...and the dsf and the mental health dept i these ERs. there is a law that when they see that someone tried to commit suacide that they are suppose to get them treatment...or at least that is what i always thought....
it just isnt right that this baby should have to sit and watch this and remember his mama like that. and no matter even if he is just 2 he will rememeber some of it.
call the dsf again and again and find out if they have been out to investigate the house and her and your mother. He needs a voice...you are it....continue to yell till someone pays attention
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Deb,
God Bless you for caring for that little boy! He should not be in that home! The only reason I can think of as to why DFS has not taken him, is that they do not have a home for him. Would you be willing to get a foster parent license so you could take him? He needs to be out of that home! My Mom and Dad have been Career level Foster Parents since 1994. They have had over 50 kids come and go (one will stay forever, we adopted her :)!) I would call DFS every day until that boy is some where safe. I wil be praying for you and your family.
God Bless you for caring for that little boy! He should not be in that home! The only reason I can think of as to why DFS has not taken him, is that they do not have a home for him. Would you be willing to get a foster parent license so you could take him? He needs to be out of that home! My Mom and Dad have been Career level Foster Parents since 1994. They have had over 50 kids come and go (one will stay forever, we adopted her :)!) I would call DFS every day until that boy is some where safe. I wil be praying for you and your family.
Cassie L.
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