How do you tell someone they need to have WLS
Good for you at least he's starting to talk about it some. I agree get through his immediate medical issues but don't wait to long . Maybe try to get him a primmary doctor. He'll need one for the long run and he or she might be able to help you with your fathers needs for weight loss. Also do you go to any support groups for wls? If so maybe your dad will be willing to come with you as a support person for you. That way he can meet others who have had wls ( like other men ) this might help. With all that you have going on I hope you are taking care of you. A parents health issues are hard on you also, I know. Your father is lucky to have you even if he doesn't like all that you say. Good luck God bless and keep us posted. Nancee banded 2/5/08