Foot in Mouth again!!! hubby whine lol

I never will understand   men!!!
It was ok to call me obese and he still says i am.   and yes i am for  5 more pounds.(now you know why i want these last few  pounds off bad lol))))

Well he buys a knee brace  a medium of all things.   and this man is  5 ft  10  weighs  230
and wheres  40 inch pants and  xl shirts. and he thinks he is a medium lol

Of course  he doesnt read the  instructions on it ,  so he goes to put it on today and it doesnot  fit.
(i wonder why))    so he  says   i didnt think i needed a large.   So like a dummy i say---There is nothing medium or small on you  what do you expect.   You are considered obese  and a medium is not obese.   Well  He says to me  " you ignorant *****  I am not obese  "    Omg  he needs to open up his eyes i guess.  

so  of course he is  mad at the world this morning.  throwing thrings out of the  frigerator cause he couldnt find what he was looking for.  I finally said if you cant act or talk nice   get out of my house and go to your garage.   and smoke a darn cigar.  lol which he did.  and now i dont have to  look at his  unhappy face for a while. 

I  guess  i never can win  but that is ok  I dont  care.  I am trying  to get healthy  and if he cant or dont want to that is his  own problem  not mine. lol

Havea a great day and sorry for whining about  the hubby  !!!   who works hard and loves me but  cant face the truth lol

Patty

Hey, that's what we're here for.  LIttle stresses like this are enough to put us in overload and stuff a large "Burger" in our face.  Silly men, what would they do without us.  my DH got me a shot of taquilla Friday night when I got home at 1:00am after being at hospital with my mom all day.  he said you could use this... I DON"T EVEN DO THAT CRAP..... I was so upset, I cried.  I"VE NEVER DONE SHOTS ! Yak!   well, hope for your sake he stays in the garage. lol  oh, and show him the weight scale on Obesity.  Bone head!!!

Hugs, Cheryl

I"m sorry you're having a hard time. I think it's time to kick him in the teeth for that "ignorant *****" comment! WOW! NOT COOL!

He has been in the house twice   and just  stands and looks at me.    that is  his way of saying he is sorry i guess.    I would of liked  to  kick him in the teeth  but i told him to go his garage instead lol

He needs to remember who he is talking too.   I have never   put up with it and i wont start now.
He has always thought that   because his dad called his mom that  all the time  he  could say those things to me.   His mom would just   ignore the comments.   NOT me   lol.

I guess that is why we call him  grumpie instead of grampy.    He has finally cooled down  just hates to say he is sorry.  

Oh well     someday he will get it i hope.    lol 

Sometimes........well, ok.........all the time........I'll NEVER understand men!!!!!   Good for you for not putting up with his comments.......I'd have told my DH to hit the garage too if he'd ever said that to me!   Hope it all smooths over soon!  I'll be thinking bout you!   hugs!   Ruth

 

btw.....I'd show him his height and weight on the BMI calculator.........can't argue with numbers on a computer right?

Never be sorry for venting - it's more important now than ever that you have a place to vent. That's what we are here for.  So now...sending the hubby to the garage - that sounds like the adult version of putting the kid in the corner - you're cracking me up - good for you!

Good to vent here.  Men!!! sometimes I don't know.....
When DH is in a mood I tell him he's sleeping outside in the 5th wheel trailer or straighten up and behave yourself.

YIKES !! 
That comment alone would have got him the "penthouse" in the DOGHOUSE !!

I agree with Ruth...have him type in his numbers and see for himself...
sit back and enjoy the expression on his face when he see's his BMI !!

Good Luck to ya !!

deb