Rude?
When Tiffany was born, her grandfather on her dad's side was married to a woman with hair down to her butt that looked like a bucket of grease every time I saw her. I figured if her hair wasn't clean, her body wasn't either! I made her take a shower each time before I'd let her hold Tiff! Rude or not, I meant it, she knew it, and she complied!
Sherri
ps...I relaxed a little with Jay. I think most parents do ease up a little bit the 2nd time around.