sad news

well everyone my excitment from last week has been ripped from my heart   I lost the baby on Sunday. the er dr says it was tubal pregnancy and that it happened for a reason. I asked to give me 1 good reason why.  well  any way guess I dont have to go to Indy this week to see the nut. my fiance who is wonderfully supportive keeps saying we will try again when it is safer. thats great but it doesnt change the fact that I want my baby back.

Kat, I know there is no reason in the world that is going to be acceptable. Just trust that God knows what he is doing. He saw the little one having problems and rather than him/her being born to a lifetime of medical issues, he decided that they should be at home with him. When your body is ready, you will have your baby. Until that time comes, do all you can do to get your body physically fit so that it can handle a pregnancy...and then trust God with the rest. Many prayers and thoughts are coming your way...... Sherri

Having lost my second child at age 5 weeks, I know that there is no reason that's going to seem like a good reason. It just doesn't help much to have 'reasons'. We were told all kinds of things, but the fact is, just like you, we just wanted our baby back. It's a painful emptiness. I am so very sorry that you have to go through this loss. I wouldn't wish the loss of a child on anyone. You will be in my thoughts. If you need to vent, feel free to message me. I would be happy to share my phone and talk with you. 

I am so sorry about the baby.  Several member of my family have lost their babies and I know it wasn't easy for them. Please know that thoughts and prayers are with you.

sorry to year of your loss.  I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. That explains why you were not at the support meeting last night. Feel free to call me anytime if you need to talk. Deborah

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I KNOW THE PAIN AS MANY HERE DO . IT IS GOOD THAT YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SUPPORTIVE THATS RARE IN CASES LIKE THIS. GOD BE WITH YOU AND WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT YOU WILL HAVE THE CHANCE TO TRY AGAIN. GOD NEEDED ANOTHER ANGLE WITH IM IS THE REASON HE TOOK THE BABY.  VICKI

 

Oh Darlin',  I am so sorry.  I wish I could hold you and make the pain go away.  You are in my prayers.

i too have lost a baby...it's hard to handle, but you will get through this...my prayers are with you.

 

jen

I am sorry  for your lost.  I will keep you and your finance in my prayers.   Peggy

I am so sorry for your pain & loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Just remember you are loved and healing, gentle prayers are coming your way. God only knows why, just trust that your baby is in the loving arms of God now. My daughter had 10 miscarrages- why, too many "medical "reasons- no answers, just knowledge that they will never have pain, sorrow, or suffer- we will see them one day in heaven.  WE HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT! I am here for you- and sending you my love. (((hugs))) Ellen