A MASSIVE APOLOGY

airforcewifey
on 3/29/09 2:45 pm
First let me apologize for picking your guys brains asking you a thousand questions ranting, crying and venting only to go AWOL

Thank you also many of you for wishing me good luck on my surgery

However, my surgery has been changed to May 7

So many of you guys have been amazing to me and I would love to answer all of your questions at once.  However, it is a very personaly and sensitive issue.  Basically me and my husband have to work on something that prevents me to effectively go into surgery.  It would have been to much stress and everything.  Two days before surgery I called the dr and team in tears explained what happened and they also said it was wait a while just to make sure my head is where it needed to be.

Again thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of the well wishes.  I really wish I could say hey this is whats going on but seeing that anyone can see this post in the world just makes me a little to in the open and I don't think I am ready for that. 

However, this has been a blessing in disguise because now that I can give dieting a good six weeks my mother has vowed to stand behind me full force if I do elect surgery so I am thankful for that.

Again many many many thanks you guys have no idea what you did for me.

Nicole
**Everything I say and post is strictly my opinion. I am not intending to be malicious or libel in any way.**

I'm Hopeful    
Janet H.
on 3/29/09 9:33 pm - Golden Valley, AZ
Nicole, I am sorry that you are having problems, but your Dr's, are right you need to have your head in a good place before having this surgery, I wish you well and hope that everything works out for you either by having this surgery or not,
Keep us posted on what is going on, we are here for you,
Hugs to you,
Janet

      Success begins with wise choices I make,I will not let noncompliance be my mistake, The surgery I had was to assist me in changes. My compliance is for a success long range, So I will think before I decide to cheat. Remember the goals I want to meet. For this surgery is not something I was force to do It was what I wanted for a healthy life!       
                                                                                              
 
 

 
  
 

 

ChristineB
on 3/29/09 10:24 pm - Western 'Burbs Chgo, IL
May 7th is a good day as that is the day I had my surgery coming up on 6 years ago.

 
Open RNY May 7
260/155/140 




 

berts4
on 3/29/09 10:27 pm - Rock City, IL
NO apologies necessary....It is good that you understand the mental aspect of this life changing surgery.  We will be here for you either way for support.

 

Tell someone that you love them!
Dawn
253/223/167/127
HW/SW/CW/GW
 

Nicolle
on 3/29/09 11:15 pm
Nicole, you are wise to postpone this if you have any doubts or have to get your head in  a better place. I wish you well, sweetie!

Nicolle 

I had the kick-butt duodenal switch (DS)!

HW: 344 lbs      CW: 150 lbs

Type 2 diabetes and sleep apnea GONE!

Lisa Tucker
on 3/29/09 11:50 pm - Streator, IL
Revision on 04/19/13
Nicole,

Whatever decision that you make, is for you alone to decide. No apologize needed.. You are wise to wait if there is a problem. Good Luck and keep in touch with the board.

Lisa

 
 

Start Weight   330
Current          219    BMI 38  I am in the normal range!!!
Goal Weight  180



                   
 

jdg1224
on 3/30/09 3:59 am

Nicole,

No apologies needed!  You are so right in saying that you have to have 100% concentration at the time of surgery!  May 7th is just right around the corner!

Keep up the positive attitude!  You will do great and I hope all works out for you!!

-Joy.

 

 

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