waaaaaaaaaaa

ok..as of today,I'm 4 weeks post op. I've lost 28 pounds and now it's just standing still ! I heard that the 3rd week is kinda the "stall " week....if this is true,when does the losing start again ? Plus...for those of you that have had the surgery..what is " normal" for bowel movements ? ( I know..not a pretty subject but an important one ) I have been having trouble with not going and when I don't..any food i eat comes right back up..even if it's just ramen noodles or even mashed potatoes..I can take MAYBE 2 bites and that's when I start feeling the burn and know it's not going down . I took a mild laxative and got minimal results but was able to take a couple of bites of soup and a few of those small ritz crackers,but I feel bloated and sore. is ANY of this normal ? On the upside..i joined a gym and started water aerobics yesterday and will work my way up to the machines after I get all the kinks worked out. other than the bathroom issue i feel fine..everyone at work is amazed at the change they see already..but I just don't see it. my husband keeps telling me that I'm 'wasting away " lol..I can only hope so !