Sister's needing Sister's
Hi everyone,
I found this on another forum and I thought it would be nice to share it with you.
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking
iced tea and visiting with her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage, about the
responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother
clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear,
sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the
tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. "They'll be more important as you
get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much
you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters.
Remember to go places with them now and then;! do things with them.
And remember that "Sisters" also means your girlfriends,
your daughters, and other women relatives too. You'll need other women.
Women always do."
"What a funny piece of advice!" the young woman thought.
"Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world?
I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup. Surely my husband
and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life
worthwhile!"
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with
her Sisters and made more women friends each year.
As the years tumbled by, one after another, she
gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was
talking about.
As time and nature work their changes and their
mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life. After
almost 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call when they say they will.
BUT Sisters are there, no matter how much time or how
many miles are between you. A Sister is never farther away than your
needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you have
to walk it for yourself, your Sisters will be on the valley's rim,
cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your
behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they
will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you
out.
My daughters, sisters, sisters-in-law, and.... "girlfriends"...bless my life!
My world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no
idea of the incredible joys or devastating sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.
Tomorrow we will need each other even more.
Hope you have a warm and loving Thanksgiving filled with sweet fragrance,
Sharon