bad and good news

jilliecats
on 5/6/08 3:39 am

I just wanted to thank Paula and all the rest of you for the positive thoughts and posts you have given me. I don't feel up to going into details, but I am in a MAJOR depression right now and am working with several psychiatrists/therapists to beat it. That is the bad news in my life. It porbably started back in December 2006, with the separation between me and the ex. I chose to ignore it and kept pretending all was wonderful in my life instead of dealing with the stress, etc. Then came Jeff and I thought I was truly happy. I now know that I was just a co-dependent to him. When the break up with Jeff happened, I truly went on a downward spiral. Although my brain tells me that my relationship with Jeff was not healthy at all, my heart has been telling me different. I have been feeling so lonely and unwanted, which is the depression talking and I know it, but I can't help it. So the good news is that all of you have lifted my spirits so much. I appreciate it so much and it really could not have come at a better time. I know I will beat this and I just have to take it one day at a time, but for someone who is not real patient, it is very hard. But I just wanted you to know how much I appreciate each and every one of you. Support is the name of the game, and I am so thankful of the support you all have shown me. Much love to all, Jillie

Jilliecats

Katt M.
on 5/6/08 3:45 am - Fontana, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

Jillie, I'm sorry for everything you're going through. You are a bright and beautiful woman and you will get through this. We are all here for you. =)

~Katt~ Obesity Help Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/abetterclassoflosers/
Sexy isn't a look, it's a state of mind. ~Me~
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~Dr. Wayne Dyer~

jilliecats
on 5/7/08 3:25 am

RNY on 01/28/04

Thanks Katt! What a nice thing for you to say. xo xo xo Jillie

Jilliecats

taz51501
on 5/6/08 3:57 am - Central Coast, CA

Sue

Keep doing what you're doing, Keep getting what you're getting.

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Darlene
on 5/6/08 6:04 am

RNY on 08/26/00

Women are angels.
...and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick.

We are flexible.

Darlene

Celest J.
on 5/6/08 9:49 am - Victorville, CA

RNY on 09/23/04

Congratulations Honey wooohooo!!!!! You need to call me more often I miss you. Big hugs, Celest

Diane C.
on 5/6/08 10:50 am - Highland, CA

RNY on 12/11/06

Sorry things have been tough on you. I have dealth with severe depression for many years, but the one thought that gets me through all of it, is that I know that tomorrow will be a better day. If it's not, then there will be another day that will be. You can just muddle through the bad ones and soon enough there will the rainbow. Keep your chin up. Hugs, Diane

Carol I.
on 5/6/08 11:00 am - San Jose, CA

RNY on 05/12/08

Jillie - I'm so sorry you are struggling so much right now. I've been through the major depression, and at the time it seemed it would never get better. Just try to keep in mind that it does get better - not in a big flash of lights and confetti falling from the skies, but in the little signs around you that God is with you and your friends all love you. I'll be sending good thoughts and prayers your way. -- Carol

Paula K.
on 5/6/08 12:02 pm - Laguna Hills, CA

RNY on 02/23/09

Jillie, you *so* deserve the POTW. I love receiving your messages and the idea (soon to be reality) of going to Vegas!

So let's start the planning! Any hotels you prefer?

39 lbs lost prior to surgery!

judyanne
on 5/6/08 1:53 pm - Duarte, CA

RNY on 04/27/05

Love you and miss you! JudyAnne

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